can male and female be mutual friend forever>
Hi ppl, I need some advice on this. I know a girl for 10 years and so far we have been very good friend. We like each other alot in some way but we never been in a relationship together.
Recently, we started to talk very closely since we are single together, we almost catch dinner everyday, hang out shopping and talking how our works..etc.
But secretly, I love her alot. I admitted that I love her more than any other ex's I had. I want to spent my life with her but i guess she doesn't feel the same. For 10 years, I never have the courage to ask her. Reasons was that either we were in a relationship, she is 3 years older than me and I never see a hint of knowing if she like me as I do for her.
I'm 30 now, I want to get marry later, so I want a long relationship. I really not looking forward a repeat of dating games. I know who I love the most all the time but I never have a courage to express them, I'm a stubborn person.
I need some courage, I can't wait for another 10 years... I love her so much, and it sad that I can't even be with her. Is it because we know each together for too long? no starks in our feelings? or should we remain friends forever with my heart close on my feelings?
Should I let her know how I feel? if so, can we remain friends still?
Is it a excuse for her to remain friend?