How to find a lovely, sweet, and free casual relationship?
Hi Everybody!
This is serious problem and challenge I have recently faced, and need your helps and inputs. I know that some people, perhaps particularly women/girls, might not like this post and think in a bad way about me; but hold on! Think about it before any judgment!
I am a man in his 30’s and married. Being a university student I am busy with my works and studies. And, usually highly sex-derived! Recently, unfortunately, my wife had to travel abroad and she wouldn’t come back in a couple of months or more.
Well, we are honest and open to each other. So, days before her departure we talked about it and she agreed I could have a casual relationship during this time ! We definitely don’t want to cheat!
It was a difficult situation for me, honestly and I was placed in a terrible dilemma: on one hand I had my wife’s consent; on the other yet I was not sure internally whether this was morally right; on top of that, my sexual needs distracted me from my everyday life to the extent that impacted my works and well-being. Well, I am not an angle, but a human with some natural needs, including sex; right?
Finally, I made my thoughts and spent lot of time searching dating sites and craigslist. All fake and crap! Except that in CL when it comes near reality, you are asked for a paid sex. Obviously, this is not what I am looking for!
Do you know if there is a way to find a ‘lovely’, ‘respectful’, and ‘mutually beneficial’ casual relationship?
Moreover, will a female partner in this kind of relationship get offended if she knows you are married and it is not going to be or lead to a long term relation?