Love him but no longer attracted
Hi folks.
Ok…
. been with my man for nearly 5 years
. we have a wonderful bond and he is my best friend
. I have zero physical attraction to him anymore
. I am beginning to wonder if I ever did
What do I do? We were friends before we got together and I know for a fact if we broke up the friendship could not continue. He has already told me this. I don't want to lose him in my life. I know sex isn't everything but I cannot spend the rest of my days with a man who I don't enjoy being with in that way.
Whats worse is that I have no desire to even TRY and make myself attracted to him again. Every time he rubs my back or whatever I cringe. Seriously, cringe. I adore the man - so why why why is this happening? :(
I either stay and endure a life of unenjoyable sex, but get to keep him in my life, or leave and lose him for good.
Oh and my libido is sky high. I masturbate and think about sex all the time so nothing is wrong with me there!