How do you stop yourself from investing?
I don't fall for people very often, but when I do, I fall fast and hard. I get blinded, and ignore massive red flags. I just had my heart completely smashed, and I cannot put myself through this again.
I've got a new set of standards for my life and what I deserve. I know I need to be more demanding, and not ignore red flags. But, I don't know how to stop from getting invested in a guy I like.
I know you shouldn't invest fully until you're engaged (or even married), but how do you prevent this? Once I meet a guy I'm attracted to who's also on my wavelength it's like something possesses me. Help….! :mask: