Originally Posted by
alexandraboo
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I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, and our sex life has been okay, but I am not sure if its normal or not.
First issue I have is, He never makes me cum, its very rare he will take the time to do so.
I have recently had a baby, and he told me that because of my size during pregnancy sex wasnt very good for him, I have recently lost weight and have been going to the gym regularly to tone up plus some tanning session.
I feel like sometimes he just has sex with me to cum and get it over with, like a quickie, there are only certain times he will compliment me and make me feel good during sex.
Another thing is he keeps looking at porn, against me being hurt about it.
He used to want to have sex all the time, and initiate it, but he says I make it like a chore for him, like I pressure him into it. Not so much anymore, but I am a very sexually driven person, I am always wanting it, the attention, the passion from him. Sometimes sex ends up kind of awkword, since I am not stick thin, (not fat) just not super thin. He has told me before that my weight before kind of turned him off, but I since lost about 20 pounds for him, working out and eating better because I know it would turn him on more and make sex better if I was thin and more fit.
I just want to know if it is normal that he usualy just wants quickies?