Liking my boyfriend less after having sex for the first time?
I have been with my boyfriend for a little bit over half a year, and three days ago, we had sex for the first time (for me, it actually was the very first time). I didn't enjoy it and didn't really feel a thing (emotions-wise) and while I consciously know that it is all just likely due to my lack of experience and that it will get better (eventually), I somehow afterwards only find myself thinking about what I don't like about him (he is a very nice, smart guy who calls me everyday, says how much he loves me etc.), how I don't feel he really cares about me, my problems... Has anyone felt the same way? One always hears about how having sex makes a woman feel more attached and all that, but for me, it is just the opposite...
Do you know what might be going on and how can I get rid of that feeling? On top of that, I still think everyday about my previous 'boyfriend' (we broke up because he went abroad and we were together for only a very short time -- a week or so), with whom I cannot be and know very little about... This is all plain crazy, please help me with an advice as to how I can change my thoughts. I don't know what to do.