Dating someone who used to only date guys in relationships
I am in a relatively new relationship (3months) and it has been going great.
Stupidly the other day we had a discussion about our pasts.
I realise that the past is the past and what happened in their past shapes who they are today. And I have never judged anyone for their past decisions nor am I a jealous person.
My girl told me that she had slept with a friend who is a married man with a pregnant wife which she said was bad and a mistake.
I believe he still texts her every now and then. I accept that we all make mistakes and this in itself isn't an issue.
However she then went on to say she went through a spell where she only pulled guys in relationships. This is a red flag for me for two reasons. As she was obviously going out with the intention of pulling guys in relationships despite her describing the incident above as a mistake. Also for me this says she is the type of person that will risk hurting others for her own needs.
She also told me about kissing a married guy from her work which she described as "only a kiss". For me this is another red flag that she obviously doesn't see kissing while in a relationship as bad.
She is also really paranoid that I will pull people when I'm out despite me giving her no reason to think this.
Do you think I should walk away before getting hurt, should I give her a chance to explain or am I being silly and over thinking things?
I have been introduced to her friends and family which suggests she is being open with me. I've had plenty relationships in the past and never felt this level of distrust in any of them.
Really bothered by this and have no one that I could confide in. I would greatly appreciate any help.