good idea or bad idea...send girl food @ work
long story short...asked girl out (told her I'd buy her dinner when she got back from vacation), she said yes...went on vacation, came back and was still saying yes....when it was time to go out she all of a sudden backed out.
I'm thinking she got scared or nervous and she still wants it to happen or at least she DID want it to happen along the way. I had zero doubt we were goin out and was shocked she backed out, didn't expect it at all.
We're still cool, talk a lot.
I was thinking of anonymously sending her some pizzas to her work (working something out with a pizza manager). Putting a note on there addressed to her like "I told you I was going to buy you dinner" and not sign it. She would know exactly where it came from.
We work for the same company but she works at a different location but we see each other everyday. So basically I'd have that pizza delivered at a certain time and she'd see me like 2 hours later.
I was thinking it'd be funny and a smartass thing to do...in a good way.
most people i've ran it by think its a good idea......some say it would embarrass her, she might get ribbed for having a secret admirer.