First Post - Cougar GF seeking attn from other men one week into relationship...
Okay, I'm going to get right into the facts. I need some opinions here. I just asked my girlfriend to make it official as bf/gf after three years of us getting to know eachother/hooking up/etc...Shes wanted me the whole time, and I finally just came around to realizing what was in front of my face for so long, and came to the conclusion that she's the one I want. She's 38, I'm 24..we are on the same level of emotional maturity. Here's the problem. Not even a week into me asking her out she decides to ask me if she can go to the Phillies game with a guy that hit her up on a dating site in January that she is "friends" with. They supposedly only have had "chit-chat" and its never been about attraction....I initially started questioning her about it (how long have you known him, have you ever been intimate, have you been out with this guy before type stuff..she ended up telling me they went out for drinks, but were never intimate), and got a little irritated but then ultimately decided to tell her "hey, its your life, do what you want. I'm never going to control you..etc". However I ended up with the punched in the gut feeling and ended up blowing up about it later on because I felt as though it was extremely inconsiderate to pull a stunt like this so soon after finally comitting to her...I would expect that she wouldve behaved and been content with me taking her to the game or something (I take her to games/out whenever I can)...So we ended up getting into a big thing about how it wasnt right and she eventually expressed true remorse and apologized many times (strange how much remorse she showed yet she still did the deed) What the hell am I supposed to think here? I need some level-headed opinions...If you guys need any more clarification let me know..Please help me set my mind at ease
