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Alright, here's my deal.
A girl who is a very good friend of mine...is a senior. Now, I am a freshman [9th grade]. The thing is...I am madly in love with her. I do believe that she is too. We flirt all of the time and we danced together at the last school dance.
But how do I find out if she likes me and if she would even go out with me. She's about to graduate in two months...what should I do? [Not by stopping her from graduating!]
Are you sure you want to be in a relationship with someone who is out of high school?
Just ask her out.
I don't think you will have much of a future with someone graduating in a couple of months. Not only will she most likely want to date guys her own age, but it will also soon be illegal for her to date you. So, if you don't mind it only being a very short-term thing, go ahead and ask her out.
It's hard for high school senior couples to even survive AFTER high school ... It'll be even more difficult for a girl out of high school to settle for a younger guy who'll still be in high school for 3 more years after that ...
Trust me when I say this, your life (and wants) will change A LOT in the next 3 years ...
Just ask for her phone number, and visit her whenever you find convenient.
I commend you for your bravery. Not so much for your good sense.
people are immature in high school which often makes it difficult to have a serious relationship.
ask her out or end up with regrets and later on think " What if ". Those two words will haunt you for the rest of your life.Quote:
Originally Posted by bigcr27 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You are wise! its true give it a shot the worst that could happen is u learn something from it plus not many 9th graders are pimp like u anyways but yo what do ppl mean when they say its illegal? u can be 14 and date anyone older in canada i guess its 18 in the states! because i truly believe that love has no age its an emotion that can take u to places where nothing matters and for that **** what anyone says about age or your sexuality... ANYTHING! good luck and dont be like some losers and always ask what if, be like me and say i did that it was crazy but i did thatQuote:
Originally Posted by anxious [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
lol!
PEACE!
also i am not saying that a 14 year old should date a 30 year old im just saying that if the 2 ppl are clearly just as mature and think alike whos to say they shouldnt be together
It won't be illegal for them to date.
You're so extreme Vash.
Ask her out!