Fell in love with 2nd cousin... She's gone now, need advice?
For the longest time I convinced myself that I did not need a partner in my life, for I am very young (17) and it would only get in my way at this age. For several years I was single and convinced myself I was happy, focusing on school, my job, my body (working out/diet.) While this time, I've been getting immense amount of attention from gay men and women, which only made me more confident and led to a bit of arrogance. Though many people consider me a very nice person and a really cool guy, I knew that while I focused on all these things that simply revolved around me I was losing something. The lack of love from a women, which I did not even consider being the reason for my diminishing consciousness and empathy for others. Life is just not complete without your loved one plain and simple.
A couple of weeks ago a second cousin of mine arrived from a isolated rural town here in my state. From the minute she arrived, it was obvious she had a keen interest in me. Being the arrogant d***he that I was, I was not surprised.I decided I'd get to know her a bit and eventually have sex with her or something. I though about it however and decided I would not go that far, because she's a little younger than me and I would not like her to be all heart broken in the end. However during the 2 weeks of her stay, we flirted a bit, had nice talks, and I basically got to know what a wonderful heart she had and by the day she left, I was in love with her. However before she left, I was planning on giving her a surprise kiss goodbye,however I knew we'd both be sad and longing for each other if I did such a thing, so I decided to leave the house and hit the gym in order to avoid any further attachment between us. However, half way through my workout I regretted what I did and decided to get back and say goodbye. It was too late, she was gone. I feel bad, she probably thinks that I am a d****che because I did not say goodbye and we obviously had a connection, What should I do? She lives two hours away. I have not felt like this in a while, my arrogance has eradicated out of my soul and my level of consciousness and empathy is once again where it once was long ago
What can I do, I want her. Her skin, her hand, her smile, eyes, everything....