dumped, she seeing someone else, but i want her back
Hi,
Could anyone here please help me. Here's what happened...
We've been dating pretty casual for about 8 months but only see each other once every couple weeks because of work and distance. She was really into it at first but seemed to lose a lot of interest. I probably wasn't satisfying her or giving her the commitment she wanted. She broke up with me. She admitted she started seeing someone else. It really sounded like she didn't like this guy too much.
I've been pretty crushed and been moping around. At first, I ended the breakup call quickly because I was taken by surprise. She is definitely someone that I could see being with for the long term.
I spoke to a counselor who told me to call her and say sorry that I wasn't trying hard enough and making enough time for her and I really liked her and that I want to try again. And to tell her that I was upset she didn't tell me about the other guy (could have been worse she could have been dating 20 guys at once or something)...I called her and told her that and told her that. I also told her I'm not surprised she's dating someone new because she's been looking really good lately. I asked if she wanted to get together and she said yes... but I asked if she really likes this other guy and she said yes. I told her I have to move on at some point.
So I don't know I was thinking give it some time and get together with her to see if she's into it...
What would you do ? Please help... I care about this one alot