question about the "no contact" strategy
So if I use the "no contact" rule in efforts of getting my ex back...do I go ahead and essentially declare to her (by email or AIM or whatever) saying "hey....so i feel like i need space and i wont be speaking/seeing you any time in the near future" and sorta warn her about my impending no-contact strategy,
or do i go ahead and start doing the no-contact strategy without letting her know, and letting her figure it out for herself?
thanks, and i know this is probably a stupid question