Counselling how should I proceed?
For a long time now I've had self image, jealousy, porn, "women's", and insecurity issues. I've tried to come to terms with this within myself and all that "love yourself" bullshit.
So finally after a number of years, endless talks and arguments with friends... no one can say anything that has actually helped me figure this shit out. So I decided that I need to seek a pro's advice.
So... how much are counsellors? I've heard of this "sliding scale" billing (billed based on income).
My company pays for *some* counselling... that's good. The bf's plan may... but how the hell do I ask him if his plan will cover my issues; which brings me to my next point.
Should I tell him that I'm seeking help? Most of the issues have to do directly with him. And we've had endless fights (all our bad fights surround these *my* issues) and at the end of the day I just say "I'll figure it out" or "I'll just deal with it". And I've honestly tried to just not care, or put it to the back of my mind, or pretend like it doesn't bug me. But if I'm perfectly honest, it bothers the living bejesus out of me. I want to make this work, and I can't do it alone, I need to see someone who can help me for real.
So after I've babbled on and on... does anyone have advice, experience? Thanks kids.