How does this girl see me?
I told this girl back in December how I felt about her. She said she really did like me too but was not looking for anything serious at the time for a couple of reasons. She ended the conversation though by saying "I hope you understand I am not crossing out the future between us". It has been over four months since that day and we have remained close since. We always have a great time whenever we hang out whether its with others or just us. We have a lot in common. We can talk to each other about ANYTHING. Her parents, especially her mom, LOVE me and I know she talks about me a lot because the first time I met her parents, they knew A LOT about me even though we had never met before. And she even calls me a "teddy bear" sometimes (Even her mom jokingly called me it, which was a little weird because she obviously had to have told her). The signs are there and it really does seem like she likes me.
Prom is coming up though and she just wants to go with a friend. She thinks if we went, things would get weird and does not want that to happen. But if we are just friends, what would make it any less weird going with another friend? Either way, I am going to take another girl because I already went through this with her back in January when she backed out of formal three days after she asked me.
Correct me if I am mistaken, but it seems like she does not want to be in a relationship because she doesn't want to ruin the friendship. I care about her and she cares about me but it's like she does not want to risk losing it by taking it to the next level. I hang out with other girls whenever but no matter what, its her that I am always thinking about and when I see her with other guys, I get really jealous even though I have no reason to be. I really want things to work out but I do not want to kill myself over something that might not ever happen. Should I wait for her in hopes she comes around or is it hopeless and should I give up and move on?