I'm 26, yet I've never been in a relationship. I came close once but ended up moving back to Cali. Anyway, most times, the thought of intense feelings for another person made me nervous so relationships always scared me. I never thought I could be girlfriend material. Now, I'll be 30 in no time and definitely feel I should be rising out of that mindset. This all dawned on me very recently (like 2wks ago).