my first love/best friend/boy friend left me after 6 years...kindly help.
hi there,
I hope you all are doing good in your beautiful lives :) and wishing you all christmas in advance!
Here's my story...met my guy in college...my best buddy with whom used to play sports, study, enjoyed college life...after which I went for higher studies and he opted for job, works in another city...well since its been 6 years I started conveying him indirectly regarding the marriage issue :P n lo! He said... I can't do it....reason being family pressure lol well, being from india....family no doubt matters a lot..but I really loved him ..and I believe any guy would be happy with me coz I am good lol. Nevermind ...i didn't let him know that I was hurt and jokingly said I know many girl friends, if he's interested lol...hearing which he sounded hurt and said...its not me but some complex reason (family, he a family guy) and from different caste blah blah blah....lots of cultural differences here, I tell you! so, the thing is it's not gone happen :( sadly :P umm and hence I need people's advice on how to deal with it. Though its been15 days we haven't talked ...but kinda missing that cute rascal now ;) so, guys help me out with your precious advice...will feel much Better ,,, till I meet my real prince charming/soulmate... :)
Adios