Why don't guys initiate contact first?
I like this guy, but I don't know if he does. He doesn't initiate contact first. I read several other forums that guys don't want to feel clingy/desperate, but I don't want to feel that way either. I met him about 3 months ago and we became good friends since I knew some of his hs friends. We usually chill at the bar/clubs with other friends. People have told me he likes me and others have said he just a friend. When I don't text him for days he suddenly starts saying random things. I know he has work likke 10-12+ and can't use phone, but when I am online and he is free, he still doesn't contact me. he is free because sometimes he tells me he is bored. Maybe he not into texting/iming, but when I text him he talks lots and we flirt and make fun of each other. My friend told me if a guy does that it means they're not interested in you, but he was like that when I first met him and I did not like him then and he still doesn't initiate contact unless I do.
He asked me to hang out with his hs friends that I know too like bar/movies. It kinda felt all weird for us when our friends called us out just cuz i bought him his tix. (I had to use the fandango tix before it expire). Had a personal one-on-one conversation. Asked me if I would date a younger guy (he's 1 years younger than me). I asked him what kind of girl he likes and he told me. The wife type, cute/sexy/beautiful/good girl type. I am cute and I am a good girl. He said he likes girl's who wear glasses and I wear them and he wants to see them, yet he makes no initiation for contact?
Btw. his ex broke up with him about 2-3 years ago and they been going out since high school for 5 years. he said she got bored of the relationship and he somewhat did too. I saw a picture on facebook and they met each other along with some friends yesterday. I don't think they usually meet because he said she finally came in the photo.
Btw I don't want to say I like him at this moment to scare him away... I want to play it safe.