Are these excuses for her to not hang out with me?
so i met a girl on a dating site and we have been chatting for about 3-4 months. we met once last week and had a good time. we both agreed we need to do something soon. she hugged me twice when we were about to leave. i also screwed up nd asked if we were "official" but i apologized and she didnt seem to think it was a big deal
we have chatted since then and have had normal conversations. i have tried to make plans with her twice now but we havent been able to go.
she said that she was way to busy with schoolwork that week and had to work all weekend and the other time she said she will be out of town for a birthday (which she had told me about before)
when she says she cant she just doesnt say no i cant. she also asks questions such as "will it be open besides those days?"
"is there a different one we could go to?"
do you think she is being serious? or do you think she is just trying to avoid me?
because due to my mistake, I'm afraid I could have scared her off but I feel liek if I did, then she wouldn't be talking to me or aksing about what other days we could go