Okay, was set up on a blind date with a woman about my age. She's single (never married) and lives with relatives--takes care of sick family members. There was almost an immediate attraction and we ended up doing some pretty heavy petting on Date #1 and more of the same on Date #2. No sex as of yet.
We've both been abstinent for years, so I'd guess that it is natural that we seek human touch. She's a very intelligent woman and very nice. Is fact that we went down that path quickly a function of basic human need or does it mean that we're both just a couple of immature sex fiends?
I think I assume that things should progress a certain way, but I think that the fact they don't follow a prescribed course doesn't mean that things are doomed, right? I get confused when my dick gets involved :)