Is paid sensual massage cheating?
while my partner if 18mths was out last night i went through his phone i dont often do this and its not because i dont trust him or think his cheating i suppose in a way its a comfort thing to make sure
Unfortunately i found messages relating to looking to pay for an hour service of sensual massage "naked and lots of touching involved"
He has been away working for last month but i went to see him every weekend so obviously makes me feel worthless...as far as i know looking at the messages he didnt go ahead with it
Question pretty much is should i be bringing this up with him? I feel like i cant as i did go behind his back and go through his phone...so theres an issue with in itself
Help