I have a similar situation going on; like the move "Like Crazy". Had a magical month with a guy over a year ago and he had to go back home several states away. Haven't seen him in over a year but we text every few days to every week or so. He calls occasionally. We have been honest about seeing other people but both admit that we haven't felt the connection with anyone else like we did with each other. He recently admitted that he thinks I am "the one" but nothing it ever clear....
He is coming back to my state soon for work and wants to drive here for a few days to spend time together. I feel like he is the one for me, too but I don't know how to react to him. When I try to be his "friend" he gets upset and says- we were more than friends, we were lovers and he gets jealous. When I get mushy and tell him that I miss him it is hit or miss. I don't know what my best approach is here. I haven't slept with anyone since him and don't know if I should cause I know it will hurt so badly all over again if this doesn't progress... But I feel like a talk about progressing our relationship might be too heavy for the brief time we have together coming up. What should I do? I know he is single. He has told his family and friends about me. Please help me out, guys... what would a girl do in this situation with you to get you to want to move forward? Would having sex again cheapen the potential of our "relationship" and make him view me as a casual fling for when he is here on business? Should I hold off? See what happens after he leaves???? Ugh.