To Build a lasting Love

This is not really a poem but a reading; I thought this would be the best place for it. We found this in a shop about 15 years ago. It hangs in our bedroom and we both try to live it. Author unknown:



To build a Lasting Love

Start by giving freely, expecting nothing in return. Say easily both “I’m sorry” and “You’re forgiven.” Find one new interest to share each year you’re together. Give small gifts frequently and when not expected. Compliment each other, especially in front of friends (and family). Never bury anger or resentment, it will only produce bitterness and a hardened heart. Always listen to and respect each other’s opinions especially when they differ. Work equally hard on your relationship as you do in any career or outside interest. Never assume your loved one knows how you feel about them...unexpressed love has no power at all, but love spoken and shared brings joy. Treasure peace between you more than being right or having the last word. Know that there is no greater reward for loving than to grow old enjoying the life you’ve created together.

good words to live by.".Never assume your loved one knows how you feel" I think one of the biggest mistakes we make is assuming. thanks for posting enjoyed the read. Lane