My Husband Won't Initiate Sex or Talk About It
We've been together for three years, and have been married for less than a year. When we started dating he initiated hand holding, kissing, petting, and eventually sex. I did ask to take the relationship slow and did tell him to back off a couple of times during the "build up" phase. During this time I initiated as well, just not as often. When we did consummate the relationship he stopped initiating everything. Everything. No hand holding, no kissing (other than to kiss me goodbye in the morning, or when he gets home), no touching, no snuggling, nothing.
It was kind of all of a sudden, too. I noticed that I was doing all of work... Literally. I was even always on top.
I've tried to talk to him and he doesn't say anything. I feel so unwanted. I feel he married me just to have the title of being married. Like that justifies him as an adult.
We've not even had sex since we've ben married. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to do.