you're effing freaked out because he's not called you or returned your text. You made out with him before you even knew where you stood with him.. There's two "hows" right there.
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I thought I had established that nothing else went on with Jack apart from us making out.
Seriously you realize that you made out with someone who hasn't given you any indication that he even would want more than a shag with you. Is all you want is a shag? Then keep up how you're hanling this and thats is exactly all you'll end up with.
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Yes, I admit the situation sounds like some soap-opera drama but I don't see how it's relevant to point that out?
Because you're handling it like it's a script and you expect your vajayjay to garner you a boyfriend. You've only made out and already you're expecting him to return your text and be all over you for more. He's playing is so that you pine for him and then you'll be even more likely to just have sex without finding out if he just wants NSA or an actual relationship with you.
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Also, for someone who's supposed to offer advice, you should opt to try and not be so condescending and rude.
Oh give it a freaking rest. Do you want me to just tell you what you want to hear? I was hardly being rude. Now I'm being agressive because you're acting like a princess who slept on the pea and now youi're cranky (there's condenscending for you)
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Even if the guy did text me back, I wouldn't "give in and screw his pants off", especially since I DID mention to him when I was at his that I wouldn't do anything like that.
yea well now you're just a challenge to conquering. You gave him a preview without even having had a coffee with him that he actually planned... you have nothing tangible from him that shows he's interested getting to know you for more than what he can fanagle out of you.
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Nonetheless, thank you very much for that, Darling.
You best read it again so that you can get past being offended because it was more than you wanted to hear and can actually grasp some sense out of it.
If you don't want to take any of it in, then you do what you think you should do and then let us know how well (or not) he treats you. Keep in mind that if he gave a crap about you, he would have contacted you the minute he got back. Instead, he makes you want him by being aloof until you do something you wouldn't normally do to try and get his attention.