I'm told she is interested, but she is not sending signals or responding to advances

I'm really struggling to understand if this woman is really interested. A mutual friend, (who I know she confides in), has told me this woman is very interested in me. However, I do not get the signals she is interested. Every time I've asked her to do something with me she brings friends along. I suggested calling her to talk (as we live in different places), but she would rather e-mail. I'm not sure how to read her interest. The times we do talk we have great conversations. I do noticed increases excitement in her voice and sometimes a hidden smile, but why does she seem not to interpret my advances? I can't figure this one out...

Why have you not flat out asked her on a date. Be specific "i would love to take you on a proper date where we can spend time alone and get to know each other better" shes prob shy or nervous so man up and take control before someone else does

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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Why have you not flat out asked her on a date. Be specific "i would love to take you on a proper date where we can spend time alone and get to know each other better" shes prob shy or nervous so man up and take control before someone else does

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It would be that easy if it wasn't for the fact we work together. I typically don't date coworkers, but I would hate for this chance to pass me. I do think you nailed it with shy and nervous though, however, with that it seems she would jump for the chance for me to give her a call instead of exchanging e-mail/instant messages.

I agree with michelle: she's probably shy and possibly unsure as to what to do because of the fact that you are co-workers. If you are 100% certain that you are willing to risk jeopardizing your job just to have a chance with this girl, ask her out on a proper date.