My girlfriend chose the baby's daddy over me. Why?
I've known this girl for almost 5 years. Talked to her almost everyday. We became great friends and we decided to be together. I asked her if she had feelings for anybody else and if so, to tell me so I wouldn't hurt myself in the long run. She said she was in love with me and that she wanted me to stay. Around the same time I asked her to be mine I noticed she starting talking on the phone to another friend, ALOT! She'd leave the room and ignore me for hours at a time. Be alot more angry with me about nothing. I told her to just talk to me about it. Just communicate! She said it was nothing. So she invites her friend over and they sit me down to tell me that she's pregnant. The same girl that admitted she was in love with me our entire friendship, ACCIDENTALLY, got pregnant a month before this to her friend. I tried to talk to her about it. There are alternate ways to staying with me and still letting the kid have a normal life. But, she says that for the baby's sake, that her and her friend should be together so the baby grows up in a stable environment. I respect what she says. But instead of telling me this when she knew, she told me she wanted me to stay here with her and she was in love with me. I left another state to come see her. I sold all my personal possessions just to come down here like she asked. I left all of my childhood friends, family, and well basically everything for her. If she was truly in love with me she would've communicated, right? She's still in her first trimester. She could have an abortion? We could still be together and they could trade it off? Why did she make the choice she did? Was it for the baby? Or was she never in love with me at all? And if not. Why put me through so much hell. Recently, before we broke it off, she said she will always be in love with me and we had sex! lol. Two days after that we break it off and she's sleeping with her babies daddy. Is she just a whore that I thought I loved? I need some help please. It was almost 5 years. I'm hurt.
~N. Storey