This is something I have been wondering for a while. I'm nearly 24 and still a virgin. I am wondering, do you think it's better to wait until marriage or to just go ahead when you feel ready? I'm in a long-term relationship that's had its ups and downs (see my previous posts if you're curious) so I've been hesitant to do it. I guess maybe I've also been kind of brainwashed not only by the media but by some of my friends who have had some bad sexual experiences. I mean, I know that those people aren't me but I still can't help but feel cautious.
On the other hand, I always wonder about couples who DO wait until marriage. I know the definition of "waiting" can vary from nothing sexual and not even spending the night together to just about everything but actual intercourse. I wonder about the people who do NOTHING until marriage. Is it amazing or is it a big letdown? Lol. I don't understand how you can even know if you're sexually compatible if you don't even try anything with your partner.
So I guess I'm basically just looking for different opinions from people in all situations :)