it's either me or him. I want a relationship with you. So I need to know, are you choosing him or I?
Pushy? Needy?
or
is it showing her that you want to be with her and it comes off as a good thing?
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it's either me or him. I want a relationship with you. So I need to know, are you choosing him or I?
Pushy? Needy?
or
is it showing her that you want to be with her and it comes off as a good thing?
It is not pushy at all. If she takes you seriously, she would want to be in a relationship with you too. If she just want to "play" you, she would construe it as pushy or use that as an excuse to lead you on.
It comes of as weak and needy. Start seeing other girls and only see this girl for sex, until she decides she wants a relationship, or until you find another girl.
Your other alternative is to tell her not to contact you anymore unless she wants a relationship.
Either way, you should not mention the other guy at all.
It's not pushy or needy, but be prepared for the possibility it may backfire.Quote:
Originally Posted by jerrysays [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
why dont u choose to leave her. if someone wants u they cant be confuse between no one
It's fine, but like HIA is saying, be committed and prepared to follow through.