Need advice. Do other men think this is okay?
Hey everyone.
My other half and I are getting married in December and he's been trying to organize his stag / bachelor party for a while. His original idea was to have a camping trip over the summer but due to various things that fell through and didn't happen. So now he's decided that, instead, he's just going to get a load of his friends and go to a beer festival near to where we live. The plan seems to be for all of them to get as absolutely trashed as possible. Which is fine, because that's generally what a stag party is for!
The big issue I'm having with this, though, is that the beer festival is on the 11th of October. Which is four days after our baby is due to be born (I'm just coming up to 37 weeks pregnant). If I'm still pregnant on the 11th, then it's basically Sod's Law that I'll go into labour when he's out with his friends and too drunk to be able to do anything. But if I've had the baby, he's leaving me with a newborn just a few days after giving birth, which I think is a little inconsiderate...
I don't want to tell him not to go, because he's really looking forward to it and there don't seem to be many other options for stag parties near us. But I want to know... Do other men here think it's okay for him to do it so close to the due date ? Would you do the same ? What should I do ?
Thanks in advance