I'm a single guy and I was doing a public lecture and a woman comes up after and said, "I thought you were great!" She gives me her business card and says to email sometime.
I emailed and then she asked me out for lunch.
I went to lunch and it is a 2 hour conversation about life, etc. She's 49 years old and I'm 39. It is fairly apparent that she has never been married and has no kids. At first, she's totally nervous during the conversation but then relaxes quite a bit. She's kinda cute and I kind of thought, "Well, does she want to be friends or more than friends?"
Oh, she insists on paying for lunch.
Here's even better news: she apparently lives about 5 blocks from my house and she's very wealthy, too.
Does a middle aged woman ask a 39 year old guy out for a 2 hour lunch to be friends or is she really looking for a good shagging?
I'm not used to being an item of interest to older women; this is a new angle for me...assuming it is what I think it might be.