she is destroying my happiness
I think most of us know what jealousy feels like.
I don't think of my self as a jealous person in general. My bf has many girl friends and many female co-workers and it doesn't bother me.
However for some reason :detective I lose touch with one of my friends because I'm always in a bad mood after my bf and I have seen her.
She just seems to have taken his sides whenever I have discussed things with her. Always so understanding about him. And because she is in a troubled relationship and I had told her that my bf had said she deserved more than that - her reaction was; he is just so SWEET.
I have discussed things with my bf and he says he likes her as a person but does not feel attracted to her and will never be attracted to her. He even said I went to see my friends to make ME happy and if this made me sad he would rather not see her anymore.
Still my moods just drop whenever we/I have to see her because it seems like she really likes him. When I comment about things he might be able to improve she answers "all men are like that you just have to accept it". And when I tell her about great stuff we are experiencing she has no response - as if she is not happy for me.
I used to be best friends with her, but she disappoints me. And I feel bad when I'm with her now. It is as if she is always dressed up and sees no flaws in him. I know it's a stupid thing but one thing she said keeps entering my mind. We had a talk about likes and dislikes, and I said well I KNOW my bf would never be attracted to someone with blond hair - and she answered: "well I have blond hair"?! as if she thought he already was attracted to her or as if she wanted that to happen some day :upset:
some part of me has already given up on the relationship with her. Still I write here because I might ignore some things which could make me see things from a different side.