Originally Posted by
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Sounds virtually identical to my situation. We're two months in, it feels pretty serious, but the difference is that she doesn't flake out on me and disappear with no explanation(not that I demand one or anything, she just gives one if she can't make it). We haven't labeled anything and we talked about it when we first started sleeping together. I basically told her that I know she's not looking to label it or whatever, but I want to be the only one she's sleeping with since we don't use condoms. For a little while I was still seeing other girls until I was comfortable that she wasn't going to flake out and ditch me. Basically until I had a certain level of trust. I see why you are still apprehensive, since your girl flakes on you and acts sketchy, and that's why I think you should keep seeing other girls. You don't have to tell her about it, and if she does find out, just tell her that you feel like she's leaving one foot out the door for an easy escape, so you're scared to get too close to her.