Separated, not getting a divorce!
I have a gf who has been separated for over 1.5 years and is in no hurry to even file for a divorce. Her husband is in no hurry either. They live in separate states and carry on with visitations, child support, alimony, etc as if they are divorced but have not filed and have no plans to do so.
They have been married for 20 years and have millions in debt. That's why I am told a divorce would be economically disasterous for each of them, so they wait until things get better.
In the meantime, I have been seriously dating her, with her children alot, and plan to be with her for a very very long time or marry someday. Plus, we are starting a business together as well.
Should I be concerned that she is not getting a divorce?
She use to be a millionaire
Still has a home to show for it, however, in this economy when the housing market stinks and when you owe more than it can sell for you got troubles. Plus, business ventures that did not turn out, etc. But that is the not the issue.
The issue is should I be considered that she is not getting a divorce. Plus, now she is broke living off of me as well. So this relationship is costing me alot of money that I don't have. I think she is afraid of divorce because it could cost her alot and she may have to move back to her home state as well and give up the lifestyle here. I told her to consult an attorney but has not. Any ideas?