What is the kindest way to dump someone?
Oddly enough I have never been in the position to dump someone. I've only been with my bf for a few months but it is not working out. He is overly dependent on me. It feels more like I have a child than a bf. He constantly wants to be with me and needs me to stroke his ego. I'm to the point where I'm completely exhausted spending any time with him. I've been working hard trying to save up to get a nice place. Now that I'm ready for it I find out he hasn't been seriously job hunting and he graduates in a couple weeks. I guess he just expects me to let him stay with me for free since I'll be able to afford the place by myself. I definitely have no plans of supporting him until he finds employment. I just don't have the energy to deal with it anymore. I don't want to be mean but I don't want to go through the motions of acting like a good gf.