Has money ever gotten in the way?
My gf is relatively new to the states and naturally there are stereotypes attached to her that she only wants me for my money. Granted, she is in a negative financial standing when u look at her liabilities (car payments) and I'm in a surplus because I've worked and saved quite a long while.... but yeah, she's very aware about the subject of me giving her cash straight but has never said a word when I treat her out (only food though... nothing fancy). Personally, I could easily pay off her car loan or any number of her other expenses, but she would prefer not because then no one could ever say she used me just for $. But has anyone ever been in a similar situation? How did u balance what you spent with what people say? What is the limit to spending if any? Should I feel cheap?