Urgent help with girlfriend, PLEASE HELP
Right, I'm 16 and I broke up with my girlfriend recently because I found out she cheated on me five times from January 11 - Feb 15, out of that she did it once on Valentines day, a really special day for both of us. But, this was four months ago and I "Believe" that she's changed, but deep down I think that she hasn't, both inside and outside. BUT, here's the problem, every time I try to leave her, she gets really sad, and even self harms quite a lot. What do I do? Because I don't know if I can do it anymore, in fact I don't know if I can handle a relationship anymore. Do I leave her for good and essentially let her self-harm, etc, or do I get back with her knowing that I don't exactly love her? My love for her isn't that big anymore, I don't think it's there. Note: Me and her talk on Kik messenger and we have been for a week now since I broke up with her, but she's showed lots of love and affection towards me. Please help.