Eventually attracted to someone
Guys
It seems ages since someone has caught my interest and given me butterflies...but it's finally happening after years of feeling sorry for myself...
there are many BUTS in this burgeoning romance, many and many so I don't think he is the one.
Among other issues, A is a neat freak (control freak as well to some extent but not in the sense that he wants to manipulate the other person).
A is very tidy
A does not react well when something in his environment has been modified
A is never spontaneous
Me:
I like clean but my space is always very untidy
I don't even notice when something has changed in my environment
I like to do things in the spur of the moment
I'm really wondering if we could even share a room together :)
Have you got some experience of being with a neat freak and what do you thing is the best way with this type of people.
Is it best to adjust to their tidiness or should you just be yourself in the hope that they ease up a bit?