How to make the first move - as a girl
So, this is a very open-ended question.
I've been wondering about this for a while.
As a single gal in NYC I see my fair share of cute guys around (on the subway, at bars, at the gym, on walks etc) and I always wonder if there's any way to signal interest without a.) looking like a complete psycho b.) looking very needy/aggressive
I'm not the boldest of people and ideally would love to live in a world where I don't need to make first moves but hey - I figure I could at leas try.
I'd rather not have to go right up to someone and say hi, but if that's what it takes...
What have been your past experiences?
Girls, any good ideas? Guys, what has worked on you?
For instance, I saw this guy at the gym that I think is absolutely gorgeous, but I can't muster to courage to go right up to him and start a conversation... am I hopeless?
I would consider myself a rather attractive, intelligent woman... yet when it comes to these kind of things I'm a chicken haha.
Any feedback welcome