i need some advice on this very confusing situation...so my girlfriend and i slowly grew apart over the past few months, and she started hanging out with this other guy. i asked her about it and she told me that she likes him, but still loves me. she told me that she would stop seeing him and try to work things out between us. so things went OK for maybe a day or two and she continued to push me away while hanging out with this other guy. then she dumps me about two weeks ago saying that she cannot be with me right now, and isnt sure what she wants anymore. we continued to talk on and off but she would just lead me on and flirt with me, keeping me close yet pushing me away. she sent me a letter saying that she knows we will eventually be together again, but right now this is how it has to be. so the other day i told her that i cannot talk to her anymore about this because i am just lying to myself that she will come back. she agreed that we wouldnt talk for maybe a month or two, and that someday we will "meet again" as she said. i still love her more than anything and she is on my mind all day every day. i cant stand the thought of her being with someone else. what should i do? i am going crazy.