Coping whilst GF loses weight
I'll keep it brief. Met GF in May 2012. She was just on the borderline of what I'd call OK in terms of weight. Since then she put on weight. I said nothing but in July I let her know that her weight gain was turning me off. She agreed to lose weight. I also said that her sedentary lifestyle wasn't good and, for her own sake, might it be a good idea to do some sport. Since then she's very half heartedly dieted but would only do sport if I virtually forced her - which I don't enjoy doing one little bit. So today we talked some more. She knows I don't find her attractive at the moment and she dresses to hide herself so it's clear she's not happy with her body either. She promised today to be a certain weight for Xmas. OK. But just at the moment I don't find her attractive at all and to be honest feel tired with being patient when before sod all happened. I shall be as supportive of her as I can but how do I find it hard being patient since I've already been patient
Any advice would be welcome. Oh, and it's not double standards. I'm 170cm, 70kg, don't smoke, don't drink, eat carefully and run about 40k per week. I do this for me but also because I want to stay attractive for her.