I'm currently dating a guy who has a history of being a 'player' and who cheated on his ex girlfriend. I know it doesn't sound good and it's literally taken him months to convince me to date him, but he's told our mutual friends that he's changed and I was wondering what you all think about whether people can change...
I've never had sex- I want my first time to be with someone who really cares about me. I've told him this and he says he wants to take things slow anyway. I guess it just seems a bit too good to be true- he's incredibly charming and I'm concerned he's just telling me what I want to hear in the hope I'll change my mind. But then again, I don't see why he'd waste time trying to change my mind when he could go out there and hook up with a different girl much more easily. I really want to believe him, he seems so lovely! But most people's advice is for me to stay away from him, and I think this is clouding my own intuition.
So, do you believe people change? I just don't want to let myself fall for someone who will ditch me as soon as I sleep with them.