Want her back, want advice.
I was on and off for 2 years with this woman. We broke up close to 3 months ago and I just talked to her today. We briefly said our sorry about how it went down and broke it down to where I had the utmost wonderful feeling of relief and clarifying that today is going to be a good day.
I told her I wanted her back, she stated she didn't want to go through with what we went through before. I told her what do I have to do to get her back and she needed to go to work so we ended the convo with our goodbyes.
One thing I always did was ask if she was seeing anyone else and if she had slept with someone else. The anticipation of the answer would always get my heart 200 beats per minute.
My question is, should I ask this off the bat and use it as a sign that it won't work because she rebounded too fast? I mean, give me a break, 3 months and she is already sleeping with another person? Am I thinking straight or should I not worry about it? Should I simply just never bring it up and see how it goes without presenting myself like some needy bitch?
If things do go well, should I bring it up later? Or should I just not consider it? I need answers from people that display a high moral standard and not someone who just feels sex is sex and nothing more. Sex for me is giving one's soul up and I gave my soul to this woman for years and she shared her soul with others and I did as well.
Perhaps I'm just being negative because I haven't had sex since we broke up? F&&K I'm just everywhere with emotions. Please give some advice!