Do you think they work?
If both parties know what they are getting in to in the beginning?
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Do you think they work?
If both parties know what they are getting in to in the beginning?
No, not usually. Maybe very briefly, if the woman is truly uninterested in getting emotionally involved, but much more often someone gets attached, usually the woman, then things get complicated, then someone gets hurt.
Yes. definitely!! If both parties are mature and expect nothing else, FWB relationships are the way to go, until you are ready to commit.
You do realize that FWB relationships are a stop-gap measure, don't you?
Could be a safe way to get to know each other with no pressure or expectations...
But both parties need respect. Example:
You're a guy. You sleep with your FWB partner. Please spend the night and have breakfast together. You don't need to just ****, be all of a sudden grumpy and make up an excuse so that you can run away for fear of intimacy....
Cos otherwise it's just a ****ing buddy and the part where you're friends is out of the window...
My 2 cents...
When i asked 'do they work' i meant do they work at what they are..not 'do they work out'
They work better if as you said both parties know what they are getting into. So yes it can work!
It never works. No matter how adamant the woman is, no matter how mature and self-reliant she seems, once your penis enters her vagina she'll develop feelings and the whole thing is FUBAR.
It doesnt work. Girls gets attached all the time.
Lol, this woman doesnt do attachment or feelings.
Then you should'nt have any problems. Be sure to pick your partner, wisely.
It's not so much a woman/man thing...
It's more that some people are good at withholding feelings while others can't help but care...that goes across genders I believe...
ha! Some of you should visit Montreal! I don't know maybe it's the fact so many hot Europeans and all but so many **** buddies around. Those girls want nothing more.
A bit sexist, don't you think? What are you basing this assumption on?Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Personal experience. I've never done it, myself, but I've been the soggy-shoulder person for so many girls who thought they could handle it or thought if they just slept with him, he'd "come around". He doesn't come around.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Guys are really straightforward about this arrangement and are always baffled when the girls who seemed so casual and into it lose their shit when the thing ends.