Should I ask him where’s this going? What is he possibly thinking of us?
I’ve been dating this guy for a year, we were doing ok. It started to be the wonder of ok it’s been a year now and we’re not together still... I wanted to talk to him about it because I just didn’t want to invest more time in someone who doesn’t see a future with me. I get confused because everyone thinks we are together. We’re in a small city and I’m around his daughter he doesn’t bring her around women, I’m at his moms house all the time even when he’s not there because we cook together and his other family all think we’re together because he never brings girls around. So when I told him I wanted to talk we started talking and before we can even talk about it we realized I was pregnant from him wanting to ask me about things he noticed that he felt are symptoms. I NEVER EVEN GOT TO FREAKING ASK. We had a small convo about the pregnant when we first found out and he said he had hoped that we could move to being boyfriend and girlfriend “hopefully maybe eventually” Fast forward to now. (about a month and some change later) I’m almost 3 months pregnant and he is acting like we’re a couple, wants to go on trips in the fall and do yoga classes together so we can have communication. I don’t know what to think. What could he be thinking? Does he just want to see how long he could ride this out? Does he not want a relationship? I just want to know what he might be thinking and how to approach this so that we can move forward in the healthiest way.