What do you do when your never good enough ??
My husband and I have been together a long time . I bend over backwards to make him happy . Every desire is fulfilled . Every need is met . He is always well taken care of with a clean home , happy kids , and outstanding sex life . I show him respect at all times . His feeling are always put first . My feeling dont matter , I dont get respect and im constantly told that I should do more , and more , and more . I dont understand why all my hard work and dedication never seems to be enough for him . Why I am not good enough ... He is fine sometimes then he will just randomly flip out and spends days telling me how much I suck and it really hurts ! Im tired of feeling this way . I love my husband and marriage to me is forever . All I want is for him to be happy and us to have a good life together and it seems like he would rather be angry sometimes . I guess I just need to vent to someone even if its myself , or get some advice on how to get through . He can be so wonderful but one little thing will set him off and he starts talking about leaving me and calling me names , he talks to me like im worthless and I have to appoligize for making him angry . I have to appoligize for not being good enough , and for not knowing how to prevent his anger and I just dont understand what the hell is going on !! What an I supposed to do ?