Lunch with the Opposite Sex
I am looking for some opinions. Within the last year my wife was emotionally involved with another man, and continued contact after telling me four times it had stopped. To this day, she feels that she did nothing wrong as they were just talking.
Last week, she was at work and one of her co-workers asked her to lunch. This co-worker is a male and they went to lunch just with each other, and never bothered to call me. Although she has frequently been telling me that she doesn't have money, she bought his lunch. She does not feel it is a big deal because it was only a $12 lunch, but I have an issue with her going to lunch with someone of the opposite sex especially so soon after her emotional affair.
She feels as if I am acting out of line so I thought I would go here to find out what other people think. How many of your spouses go to lunch with someone of the opposite sex when there are trust issues with the relationship?