Need a detective to solve this!!
I think I’ve officially found a mystery to be solved. There’s this guy I like. Warning: this is long. Sorry.
He’s been checking me out with his hypnotic eyes for a while (let’s say 2 weeks). Then he suddenly stops for about 2 weeks. After that he starts checking me out again. He always says hi to me. I say hi back. He once took the initiative and started talking to me. So I thought “perhaps I should return the favor”. I gathered all my courage and started talking to him. I tried that about 3 times. He seemed to get really nervous. I myself don’t know what to talk to him about except the weather and sports (I try to talk about the kind of sports I know he’s interested in only to make him more comfortable). And he usually ends the conversation with a “yes” or “no”. He doesn’t keep the conversations going. That makes me think he’s not interested.
I noticed that he’s taken particular interest in everything that has to do with me and/or everything I do or say. He’s acting very secretive, almost like a detective. For example: Trying to find out who’s phone number is on my desk. Taking particular interest about my birthday. Has an unusual interest when someone mentions me when I’m not around. He also likes staring at my pictures.
I gave him my e-mail address. That was in December and he hasn’t emailed me since. He seems to get jealous when I talk to a guy. Yet he doesn’t put a lot of effort into talking to me. And I don’t know why on earth he would get jealous, he always has at least 2-3 female friends walking around him like a puppy. I’m also thinking perhaps he’s keeping his distance because he doesn’t want anyone to know that he’s interested?? I don’t know why he acts the way he does…
There are a few things about this guy that makes me feel like running for the hills screaming:
1. He told me that he was going to spend Christmas with his female friend and her family.
2. One of my friends told me (in December) that he has a picture on his desktop of him and a girl. He claimed (to my friend) that she was his best friend. ON HIS DESKTOP?? Seems to me that’s she means a little more to him than a best friend. As much as I adore my best friends I don’t have pictures of them on my desktop!!
Don’t get me wrong here. I’m not saying that a guy can’t have female friends. But with guys I always think of how things would/could be in the future. If he’s spending Christmas with a female friend and has a picture of them both on his DESKTOP now how will things be in the future?? Let’s say that we’re together and we are moving in together. And he comes up with the idea of building some sort of shrine in one of the rooms for his best female friend. “Just so that she doesn’t feel left out.” Maybe I’m exaggerating. But when I found out about the desktop and his Christmas tales I immediately took a few steps back. In the meantime…
I got on with my live. Met other guys. And now he’s started again from square 1. And to be honest it’s like I’m hypnotized or something. I can’t get him out of my head. No matter how hard I try. I am so confused. If he really wanted me so badly don’t you all think he would have e-mailed me or something? Am I making a fuss over nothing? Should I worry about his deep relationships with his female friends? Should I give this guy another shot?
And if I should give it another shot? How? I don’t want to make a fool out of myself. So you see: this guy is a mystery. This whole situation is. And I'm tired of playing detective. So if any of you are willing to solve the puzzle I'd be very grateful. ;) Thanks in advance.
