Is this stalking or just coincidence?
I posted on here a few months ago about a "not relationship" that was rapidly going sour, and after I broke up with him I posted a few times about how he kept persisting with me. He would always come to the yoga studio where I teach, when I was teaching, so he could still see me, even though I told him I wanted NC, calling / texting me trying to get me to be friends with him etc.
I went away for a month, and when I got back I quit my class at the yoga studio so I wouldn't have to see him anymore. When he found out about this, he called me straight away; left a loooong voice message about how he hoped we could be friends. I ignored it for four days, then finally decided to reply. I was firm: told him it was over and he had to accept it.
Then today, I was covering another teachers yoga class. He NEVER goes to the studio on a Thursday. Never. But for some reason, I had a very strong intuition that he was going to be at the studio. And he was. I ignored him, and when I was leaving, he "tasked" me and gave me a filthy look.
As I walked up the street, I had this really weird feeling that someone was following me. I got to my house, did some things, and 90 mins later, I left to get the train.
The same feeling of being watched came back. This time I was so sure that I was going to see him that I started looking around me. I even walked a different way to the train station in case he was waiting for me. I know this sounds mad, but I couldn't shake the feeling.
Then I got to the station, and I just missed my train. And here's the really weird thing - I knew that because I missed that train, that I was going to see him. I stood, watching the stairs. And literally, a minute later, he came down them. He was looking down at his phone. he didn't look in my direction, and walked to his platform.
I feel totally shaken by both these things and heres why:
1) He doesn't normally go to that class. He could have found out that I was teaching: it was posted on the website.
2) He’s got strong narcissistic tendencies. He won’t let go of this until he wins, and has control.
3) What are the chances of being at the train station at the same time, when yoga was finished 90 mins ago?
I find it hard to believe that he’s trying to keep tabs on me, but… I now feel out of control. WHen I quit teaching my class it was a big two fingers to him; that now he didn’t have control over when he could see me. Today I feel that he does.
I know the only person who knows the truth is him, but please tell me honestly - am I over-thinking things, or could he possibly be keeping tabs on me?
