Hello All,
I am not one to post problems on the internet however in this situation I literally have nobody I can turn to or talk to. My fiance and I have been dating for 5 years and she moved about 300 miles away so she could get out of her mothers house and try living on her own. We both thought this was a good idea for her to move and we have been talking about getting married, though at the time we where not engaged. The idea was for her get out on her own and gain a little independence as well as find a place where her and I could move into when we did get married. About 4 months after she move I asked her to marry me and she said yes! Well, I have recently found out she has been cheating on me for the last year or so since about 6 or 7 months after she moved. She has come clean with me and I said if she wanted to save this relationship she needed to move back here and in with her mother, we are VERY traditional and will not live together until we are married. Well, she is moving back and we are going to see if we can move past this. A little T.M.I. here - we have never had sex with each other again due to our traditional values. I have had several girlfriends before her however I am her first boyfriend. I have have forgiven her for her what she did and asked her for forgiveness for my part in this, not moving up with her sooner. I know I can look past what has happened and not have any uncomfortable feelings, myself, when she gets back however I am not sure how to help her feel more comfortable. I know the trust will take time to rebuild so we are going to go to couples counseling at our church to help with that.
I am sorry to ramble, I just wanted to try and give people as much information as I could.
This is my first forum post anywhere so please be gentle...
Thank you
someguyintexas